i've missed out on this infamous wank that's all over the place.. i frequent fandomsecrets, i lurk around on a buncha BNFs journals, the comms, etc.. and somehow have still (luckily) managed to miss out on the BS.

i dunno, i've never settled as comfortably into a fandom as i have in this one, nor as completely (i'm the classic lurker). i have to agree with just about all of your points: the people, the fic, the slashy fun times lol (sorry, Panda, it feels pedo with ya, babes) so i'm not sad about missing out on the bad stuffs, but it does make me feel like i'm not looking close enough *shrug*